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3 Goals in Dating That Lead to a Successful Marriage - Part 1

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This three part series is perfect for anyone who is dating or unmarried, but also for anyone who knows someone that is. Additionally, do you have children or plan on having children? This can help you in your conversations with them about marriage. In thinking about his own daughter's upcoming marriage Emerson composed his thoughts on preparing for marriage, which includes being a mature person, looking for a mature person, and being motivated by Christ's mission as a couple.

Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.

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Jonathan Eggerichs, Psy.D.

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